Tare and her mum arrived safely.

October 1st, 2009
 
Dear friends,
Hope your day was great.  My colleague Prisciallah and I spent the whole of today (Friday, October 2) making sure Tare and her mum settle in for preparations for the operation.  Everything has gone on according to plan, and we encountered no problems at all.  So many calls came to Mai Tare, and thank you all for calling – do keep the calls coming.  Tare has been reading all emails and pay pal statements that you sent to her.  One would think in this condition Tare cannot read, write, walk or do anything, but she feeds herself, reads, watches TV,  and when I said are you okay emailing she nodded her head up and down and that was a clear yes. To be honest I am one woman just moved at a personal level by Tare, and it feels so different when you see her on photo and face to face.  I must say Tare`s mum is a strong woman, and she is a woman who smiles all the way, very sociable.  The counseling degree she is doing with ZOU has helped her to cope.  She appeals to anyone with reading materials on counseling to share with her later because self counseling is what I have noticed is happening with her right now.  She felt pain to see Tare in this state, and it looks like she has taken in pain to be part of her.  Tomorrow the doctor has called us to London for pre OP checks, and so if we could call Mai Tare after 2pm that would be great because that would give her some space to speak to doctors.  Today she received phone calls every ten minutes. Otherwise we have now started on the road to treatment.  I have attached some photos at the Airport and at the Lodge  where Tare and her mum have found quiet, and there they are taking some good rest.

 

Bye for now.
Regards
Muzvare

 

 

 

Tare has arrived in UK

September 29th, 2009

Dear friends of Tare.

Girl Child Network Worldwide thanks everyone who has donated to Tare so that she could come to the UK for treatment. GCNW has come up with a program to enable all of us to help Tare and her mum to settle well in the UK and get the treatment that they so critically need .
Please note that Tare and her mum are here in the UK and according to our policies and procedures Tare and her mum are not allowed to take part in any public event because of Tare`s condition, who by law is considered a vulnerable young adult. Anyone who wants to visit and meet Tare must liaise with GCNW President and Founder first. After treatment on 18 October 2009, GCNW advises that all those who wish to visit Tare and her mum contact them at 07508286549
Any questions and queries please contact GCNW President and Founder on 07866154860
Priscilla our Director of Programs and co founder of GCNW is on 07956024117.

Regards,
Hazviperi Betty Makoni
President And Founder
Girl Child Network Worldwide

Two supporters walk 55 miles for Tare

September 29th, 2009

From www.ZimbabweJournalists.com

A triumphant cheer with exuberant ululating greeted two members of the Vigil management team, Dumi Tutani and Luka Phiri, when they arrived at the Vigil after completing a 55-mile sponsored walk from Brighton on the south coast. Despite their exhaustion, they immediately joined in the celebratory dancing.
They had set off just before 5 am and covered the distance (twice the length of a marathon) in thirteen and a half hours including two short breaks.

“I really enjoyed it” said Dumi, wearing a Vigil tshirt. “People were very supportive as we passed by”. Luka, whose idea it was, could not suppress a huge grin.

The walk was to raise funds to help a Zimbabwean girl with a severe facial tumour who is coming to the UK for urgent medical treatment. The girl, Taremeredzwa Nomatter Mapungwana, is supported by the Zimbabwean charity Girl Child Network (http://girlchildnetworkworldwide.org/). Tare is to have an operation soon at St Bartholomew’s Hospital in London.

Dumi and Luka were greeted at the Vigil by Betty Makoni, founder of Girl Child Network, who was warm in her praise. “Because of your walk people here have now heard of our work”.

Betty addressed the Vigil about her experience as an activist on women’s issues. She said she had been forced to flee Zimbabwe because of her role in helping women victims of political violence.

She said one woman she had helped had been traumatized by being raped by 18 soldiers. Another, who was pregnant when she was raped, had been so badly injured that the doctor she was taken to in Botswana had cried. A recent appeal for help had been from a woman on her deathbed as a result of injuries sustained in June last year. She added that women that had been raped didn’t find it easy to share their stories.

Betty said rape had been used as a weapon of war since 2002 and women and their families were still being harassed and intimidated. Husbands would be taunted by the perpetrators, who believed they could act with impunity

While Betty spoke to the Vigil about the situation in Zimbabwe a different picture was being painted at a conference elsewhere in London addressed by representatives of the Zimbabwe government trying to get the diaspora to invest back home – despite the clear absence of the rule of law displayed so eloquently by Mugabe’s xenophonic ranting at the UN.

We had a good attendance despite the fact that many Restoration of Human Rights supporters were attending a ROHR fundraising party in Birmingham.

For latest Vigil pictures check: http://www.flickr.com/photos/zimbabwevigil/

Tare got her visa! 10,000 pounds raised in donations and pledges!

September 18th, 2009

Dear all

Together we did it!

I am happy to say that Tare`s visa has been granted and for Monday only fingerprints and other formalities will be done. Nicole and sis Vio thank you so much for all the efforts. Otherwise this is something to make everyone of us feel relieved and gain more energy to help Tare.

In addition, Peter and Joey emailed this morning and said how much to go to hit 10 000 pounds and I responded £810 pounds and in their own words, “We would like to donate the additional amount up to the 10 000 pounds.”

Thank you so much Joey and Peter. They have gone on to do this and we have hit the target we had set when we sent out the Appeal!

Regards
Muzvare Betty Makoni (HRH)

8439.33 pounds and counting….

September 17th, 2009

Dear friends of Tare

Hopefully you are fine

Our list continues to grow daily and thank you to all those who donated to Tare on 16 September 2009. Our total donations from Pay Pal is £463 and our total now is £8439,33. I salute all of you for a job well done so far .Our target is 10 000 pounds and when we get there I will announce this and a way forward .

We are organising for a press conference as soon as Tare arrival dates are confirmed

The issue of the visa is still not yet finalised but may I thank Nicole in South Africa for all the hard work going on with the High Commission .Vio here in UK has been working with us on this as well

Dumi and Luka need all support with walk to save Tare Life and should any updates come we will send them to you

Thank you on behalf of Tare

Regards
Betty

6000 pounds raised yesterday!

September 16th, 2009

Dear friends

I hope you are all fine

I have some good news as you’ll see below.

We received a total of £ 750 on 14 September 2009 and I must say a big thank you to Leanne Grossman.
Yesterday again we got a total of 6000 pounds whose details are being finalised through some lawyers in USA and South Africa whose identities I cannot disclose at the moment .Another organisation in South Africa that wants to remain anonymous has donated 5000 US$ FOR Tare’s mum’s visa .

Our donations are summarised as follows
9 and 10 Sept- £509,99
11Sept-£ 88.82
12 Sept-£415
13 September-£47,56
14Sept-£165
15Sept-£750
16Sept-6000(Transfer being finalised )

This is great work you did .The first one to donate gave 50p and the now we have 6000 pounds boost .I thank you sincerely

There is an organisation from South Africa that wants to remain anonymous and has donated £3225 for accomodation in London near the hospital so that it is easy for Tare`s mum to make hospital visits

Maybe for those who have just joined I send short updates to all the friends of Tare who have donated and ensure we update them regularly on funds donated so far

A lot of people have asked me about the visa and I must today I feel a little bit relieved because there is a strong rights advocate known as Nicole in South Africa who has been working on it and we will wait to hear of any outcomes .Otherwise Nicole wherever we are we salute you my dear

There were many questions you have sent to us and we tried to respond but many had to do with how funds will be managed .Girl Child Network World wide has a Trust account where all funds deposited for Tare are kept in that trust account .Our work is to track each and every donation and report back to you .On day Tare and her mum arrive in UK we will do a short presentation of all donations to her after a team of experts work on budgets and all the funds donated and a public announcement is done .At the moment given the hospital will cost £477 per day we may want to raise more funds for hospital bills

Then after Tare is out of hospital we will advise family to set up a trust account for her where all funds will be kept until we are sure Tare is back in school and all needs have been attended to

I hope to keep in touch with more updates and most of you have spoken to Priscillah my collegue and she has done a great job with phone calls and cheque books as well as at the bank where she spent almost 4 hours today

Barbara and Josh thank you so much

Dumi and Luka hats off for the sponsored March from Brighton to London to save Tare`s life!

New Zimbabwe.com and other media links the Zimbabwean and Zimonline thank you .Josh you are such a hard worker and very committed too

Update on Tare Appeal

September 14th, 2009

Dear friends

Those joining us for the first time please scroll dowm for updates .Thank you so much for donating to Tare Appeal. Our total donated through Pay Pal to date is £ 1041,38 and Sunday 13 September had 6 people donating a total of £47,46.

I received an email from someone with auditing experience who wants to volunteer and this is most welcome especially if we can have someone coming after a week to our offices to help us keep a check on all donations too Tare Appeal .Also before a formal presentation of the donations it is most helpful if we can have someone auditing

Our efforts are now on getting Tare a visa because so far there has been an appeal sent to Home office after Tare and her mum were refused a visa.

We have issued a statement on free volunteers we are looking for .Just to set the record straight and in writing .No amount on funds donated for Tare Appeal will be used to pay volunteer allowances and to that effect GCNW has issued a press statement as below and please feel free to send this around.

Girl Child Network Worldwide has made an appeal to well wishers and everyone who is committed to come and assist Taremeredzwa Mapungwana raise at least 10 000 pounds for her hospital,sccomodation ,transport,medication and for any other emergencies before ,during and after her operation at a hospital in London on 10 October 2009 to offer free volunteering .

GCNW started Tare Appeal with four volunteers and the list seems to be growing daily .There have been numerous calls from Zimbabweans in UK to volunteer but most of the volunteers are demanding between 5 and 15 pounds per day before they can offer help .Some of them said they could offer Tare and her mother accomodation at 10 pounds per night and trasport at 57 p per mile which is out of their reach given the fact that their situation during and after the operation is not known and so may need them to save some money for any eventualities .

Betty Makoni founder of GCNW has said,`Under normal situations volunteers can be paid and reimbursed any expenses they may incur but in our case we do not have any money to give volunteers as all of the donations that have gone through our pay pal system show that for everyone donating this is hard earned cash and every pound is marked Tare Appeal and so GCNW holds all funds in trust and cannot pay even its volunteers for any expenses .So our appeal goes to out to free volunteers who can offer services at their own expenses .. A press conference is scheduled where all donations and emails as well as photocopied cheques will be presented to Tare and her mother in the presence of everyone `

This statement follows a meeting between Betty Makoni and some volunteers who were concerned about use of their telephones and emails without being refunded .

Under the UK Law volunteers are supposed to be compensated reasonable amounts but GCNW policy stipulates that funds donated in situations like Tare`s are 100% given to her and the organisation donates staff labour to do all paperwork and heavily relies on free volunteers

Warmest regards

Hazviperi Betty Makoni
President And Founder
Girl Child Network World Wide

Tare Urgent Appeal Update No. 2

September 13th, 2009

Dear all,

I have good news that at least £415 was deposited into our Girl Child Network Worldwide Pay pal account for Tare Appeal by 17 individuals on 12 September 2009.  Thanks Leanne Grossman our Trustee in USA who sends us all individual pay pal conformation of receipt of funds hourly.  Our total amount for 8, 9, 10, 11 and 12 September is £1003,82.  We have a total of £1290 in pledges.

We have good news from Australia and USA.  Girl Child Network worldwide donor in USA who would want to remain anonymous has pledged 1000 US$ which is 645£ and Zimbabwe Arise in Australia will have an event where they hope to donate £645 as well and so our total pledges come to £1290

Please note the amount in our Excel sheet does not include 50£ from Finland, various amounts transferred into Girl Child Network Trust Fund UK account, and many cheques that have been posted to our office in West Cliff in Essex.  Monday 14 September will see us do work on Western Union, cheques and checking with our bank manager at Lloyds to see what the exact amounts are and the depositors.  Don’t forget to email us when you or friends send money through our bank or by cheque as we want you to join this group email list so we can keep posted on your efforts.

I have received many phone calls and I must say it has been painful for me and my team, Priscialla, Munashe, and Barbara, to hear shaken voices, and we could see tears and tears dropping from many who called.  My message to you is that most of you should feel happy that at least by making a donation and contacting us you have played a very important part role, and so rest assured that as Girl Child Network Worldwide we are working round the clock to make sure Tare gets here to UK to get treatment.  I have been following communications by one of us on this email list by initial W who has consulted on Tare condition with an expert doctor for such conditions in USA, and I got relieved to know that this condition can be corrected and Tare can be back in shape again.  The hospital and doctor who pledged to help Tare are there in the UK, and what remains is a visa and funds for the hospital and her mum stay here in UK.  And so our efforts should be on these remaining items.

I will email you a link from Munashe on how you can join as a volunteer and donate in kind.

For those who donated on 12 September through PayPal, we have captured all your details and welcome you to our updates on Tare.  Please scroll down or view my other blog posts to get more updates.

From all of you who have donated I have one story that touched me.  There is a  woman  who wanted to donate 50 pounds but when her husband noticed this he gave her an extra 50 pounds, and so the couple donated 100 pounds and now the couple has the highest donation to Tare so far outside the pledges.

I have also noticed that many women and girls don’t frequent the internet as much as men do, and so we will do all we can to send out a flyer with a link to our website.  And I have noticed that although all information on how to make a donation is there on our website, because of our busy schedules many are doing a shortcut to call, and so we may need a volunteer who can help those finding hard to see which best way to send a donation.

I hope to keep in touch, but it looks in just a week we have closed on close to 2000 pounds, and if we intensify our Appeal we can hit the 10 000 pounds mark.

Tisanete as we have one fifth of the funds in a week now.

Thank you all !!!!!!!!!!!

Hazviperi Betty Makoni

Tare Urgent Appeal Update

September 10th, 2009

Dear Friends of Tare,

I would like to thank you sincerely for all the donations you made through PayPal.  Today we have £509,99 raised through your donations, and for Tare no donation is too big or small.

A lot of questions have come to us, and one of them was who are you.  I am Muzvare Betty Makoni, Founder of Girl Child Network Worldwide and Girl Child Network in Zimbabwe.  In May 2009 I was featured as a CNN hero, and Prisciallah and I took all the donations sent by CNN viewers for a uniform project which allowed us to send over 1500 uniforms, jackets and many things for girls.  As girls went round distributing, that is when they sent me an appeal and said Muzvare Tare is in this situation.  When I looked at the photos I shed tears and just thought about how disease had conquered and overpowered such an intelligent girl.  I took the story to my Facebook, and Munashe Godo, a colleague of mine and Founder of Zimbabwe teachers Network, said this case would not get help if it remained on my Facebook.  She then approached Barbra who told us she had friends in the media.  Then today Munashe and Barbra have brought us to you.  I read every comment that was being passed today, and I said, “After all, men and women like you have the heart.”, and that’s why I am emailing you to say thank you!  Many requested if donations will reach Tare, and the only way is for my team to keep you posted.
 
Tare’s date of operation is 10 October, and as soon as she arrives you will see us physically handing over all the donations you sent to us because in this Trust account in the UK no one can take funds for salary or admin as the funds are strictly for girls who are very vulnerable.

… hats off for a job well done, and something donated with trust and big heart means much more.  Also you are free to remain on this list for updates, but please know we will never give out your contacts to anyone, and also this elist is there until we are through with the Tare treatment in the UK.
 
Please note that we have 13 global awards for best service delivery to girls, and like always we will do it with all heart and passion, and we are there first when girls need us.

Thanks my team and thanks all for coming aboard …

Hazviperi Betty Makoni

Raising Funds in Oakland

August 30th, 2009

Last year, a group of friends in Oakland, California, USA, got together at Leanne Grossman’s invitation and raised $2,600 for Girl Child Network to help girls facing starvation as they were fleeing the rapes and other violence by the Zimbabwean militia.

I want to share with you how their donation was applied. Esther Saidi, a 20-year old girl who benefited from GCN scholarships the past six years, sent news that at least 143 girls had received basic food and supplies worth $14 per child as follows:

Item  Quantity  Estimated Cost 
     
Cooking oil 2 litres 

2,00

Mealie Meal  10 kg 

4,50

Vaseline  500ml 

1,50

Soap 1 Bar 

1,00

Sugar  2 kg 

2,00

Pads  1 packet 

1,50

soya chunks  1 packet 

1,50

Sub Total   

14, 00

     
With US $2000 we cater for 143 girls and 600 US dollars was given as cash payouts to some serious survivors of rape and domestic violence .

Each food kit reassured every girl that despite extreme poverty and starvation in Zimbabwe there is hope.

It is such small actions like this that result in big changes—and actions like that of Michaelene Risely, who risked her life to share GCN’s story through film, and the action of Kathi Lutton, who hosted the film premiere—all these actions are very humbling.  

Despite the Unity Government being in place in Zimbabwe, Girl Child Network reports that not much has changed about the situation of girls on the ground especially in high-density suburbs and rural areas where daughters are still being exchanged for mealie meal and other basic commodities to help avert starvation in families.

We still witness many girls dying because there are no basics like food. Besides, education is no longer accessible to girls, which is a major setback for girls we worked hard to empower in the past decade. “Many girls have been forced to drop out of school and university due to non-availability of school fees,” said a GCN officer in the Girls At Risk Support Unit

We still have a responsibility towards girls because in such situations they are discriminated even more at the family and household level. Even in most communities they remain sex objects. Despite what we go through daily in our efforts to support girls, we must not tire and be discouraged because through friends and big-hearted women like our California supporters we have brought big change one girl at a time.

GCN has a database of 60,000 members, of whom 48,000 are facing starvation. We envision that Girl Child Network Worldwide, which will be officially launched in the United Kingdom in September 2009, will ensure that aid gets to the girls at the right time and place.

Hazviperi Betty Makoni